Fat or Muscular!?

Do girls see the muscular me like the guys do? I am a big guy. I used to be fat but now after a lot of working out i have bulked up. I have a HUGE upper body. I have 17 inch biceps and big shoulders. My friends say that it sometimes looks like I have football sholder pads under my clothes. I also have HUGE toned calves, my thighs are huge too but not as toned. I am very strong. I can bench 230 and squat over 410. However, i feel a little insecure around girls because i think that they might think im fat. I am always getting told that im looking good and they will say somthin to the extent of "I see you've been hittin' the gym". But that is only from guys. So my question is do girls see the muscular me like the guys do?