Im about to have a nervous breakdown?

my fiance& i got into legal issues last summer which lead to his incarceration & me being on probation. im 23 & i live on my own im independent but my parents still treat me like a teenager & try 2 control me. my parents & i dont click because they are very judgemental & im not. so i dont tell them about my situation because i figure its my problem ill deal with it on my own. i made a mistake & i have to pay for it not them. they recently found out about last summer with my fiance & that hes in jail & now all there doing is ping judgement & throwin it in my face. im going through alot right now with him being in jail i miss him terrribly & its so depressing & on top of that they're judging us & making me feel like crap. i understand they're my parents & they are concerned but i already explained myself to them so thats its. i just wanna put this behind me & move on &learn from my mistake & try to stay strong but i cant because they wont stop throwing this in my face. please help!